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troyhale Hale posted a condolence
Monday, October 16, 2023
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Sunday, September 4, 2022
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MY SON time has flown by again. There is so much to say.
I miss you so very much. There's not a day that goes by that I don't think about you. I never left your side and never forgot. So much has happened. There's so much I can say and want to say but I will wait for the time when it's my turn I will see you run towards you and embrace you. I will give you a big hug like I used to do. I will never forget our time together all the times taking walks looking up in the trees and me letting you know and telling you that monkeys lived up there LOL. I would take a stick behind my back and throw it up in the tree and it would come down and I would tell you see they're up there they're throwing back down the stick. You would look up and say i see one!. All the times we would walk near the little Lake in the back of the house all the times we go to the mall with each other all the times we were driving my fast car that you loved playing baseball It was great we enjoyed our favorite foods which was pizza and wings I always noticed looking down at you I'm always been in habit of swirling my cup with ice in it to make my drink cold I would look down and see you mimicking me. Doing the same thing. You we're so very loved I always think about your easy-going ways and always said to myself if I had a son I would want him to have a good life and be easy going. You were so like me as you got older you morphed into me. The long hair like I used to have when I was 18 to 20 the leather jacket the fast cars and the classic long hair don't care that was the mantra. Me and your mom were just kids just starting our lives. I was so happy and now I feel grateful that before this all transpired you were going to come up and back with me in Florida. I took photos of the bedroom I made for you I painted a cool color that you liked but all rock stuff in there everything when I was a kid all my picture albums I know you would have loved it and you like it when I sent you the photos we were so close we were right on the cusp you and I of grabbing each other's hand again but obviously one night of Devastation ended our plans. I'm sorry you had to go through internal struggles it's still devastates me to this day. Thank you for telling you never blame me for anything thank you for telling me you definitely understood now thank you you for opening up to me. I will always cherish our moments that we had as father and son. You would be so proud of me now to see what I have accomplished. I drive around in my work trucks all day seeing my customers I look over and there's an empty seat it gets pretty depressing for me at times because everything I've done I've done for you. I never thought how successful I would be I wish you you were here with me it'd be so great to work with each other side by side as father and son and me passing on the businesses to you you are my twin. It doesn't make it any easier day by day they say it just eases. I keep so many things to myself I think about you often and always. I know if you were here you would love the cars you should see the one I bought a 1980 C3 black Corvette it would be great if we worked on the engine together like we did when you were younger. I miss you so much. For many now they'll realize that I am always was and always will be your father I never left you are my son Troy Andrew Matthews and always will be. I keep looking over the pictures you sent before you're passing you always loved your sunglasses lol even at concerts
I was so happy you were having such a good time in life going to the concerts that you really loved hanging out with people friends like I used to do that you cared about and your favorite band Guns and Roses you take right after your old man at that age LOL rock and roll fast cars beautiful women LOL and who can forget long hair don't care. All this from a young east Utican Italian punk to a mature middle aged business man who would have known lol
I know you would laugh at that to. Like I told you
You will always be a Utican. Your uncle Tony uncle frank your aunt Tina Aunt Cherie Aunt Bridget Aunt cassie your grandmother all your cousins love you and miss. I love you I can't wait to see you again
Your father Richard
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Michele, Maya, & Miranda Smith posted a condolence
Monday, August 25, 2014
Dear Elizabeth, Dylan, Keith & families, You are all in our thoughts and prayers. You raised a truly special person who touched the lives of many in the time that he had. Those memories will live on and I hope that you find strength in those memories and the ways that he enriched your lives. My heart and prayers go out to you. Please do not hesitate to let us know if you need ANYTHING! The Smith's - Michele, Maya, Miranda, & Scott.
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Aunt Tina posted a condolence
Friday, August 22, 2014
We will miss you, Troy. You were never forgotten. Love you to pieces. Aunt Tina
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Marcia .& Mike Steiger posted a condolence
Friday, August 22, 2014
Keith, Elizabeth & Dylan, So sorry to hear about your son and brother. No words can describe what we feel for you and your family. Love, Marcia and Mike
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Jeffrey Meredith posted a condolence
Thursday, August 21, 2014
Jeffrey Meredith purchased flowers (The FTD® Pastel Peace™ Basket - Standard)
Elizabeth and Keith, I am very sorry for your loss. Jeff
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Kevin, Cathy, Cassie, and Harley Wright posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 20, 2014
Dear Keith, Elizabeth, and Dylan, We are deeply sorry for your loss; Troy was a truly genuine person who was liked by all. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers everyday. God bless you all and give you the strength you need at this difficult time.
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Kate Scott posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 20, 2014
Dear Hale and Elliot Family, My deepest thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. Just try and fill that hole you have in your hearts with the good times.
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Theresa Viola posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 19, 2014
Theresa Viola purchased flowers (The FTD® Comfort Planter - Standard)
Our Heartfelt Sympathies and Prayers to Dorothy and The Hale Family, Theresa, Donna, Margaret, Bruce, Michelle,Sheila and Jeremy and Condolences from News America Marketing.
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Doreen Gigliotti-Balls posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 19, 2014
My family is sending you our deepest condolences; we are sorry for this tragic loss. Troy was in my house visiting my daughters boyfriend to hang out and play video games on various occasions.. He was a polite and kind soul; he presented himself as a fine young man with a wonderful personality. We are sorry that he has passed and send our prayers to your family from ours!
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Uncle Eric and Aunt Eileen posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 19, 2014
We miss you already Troy. You left us too soon, too young. Whatever the plan God may have for you, it's still hard to say goodbye. We miss you, we love you. Our heart felt condolences go out to Troy's parents and brother, Dylan. Rest in peace Troy.
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The R omano Family posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 19, 2014
Dear Keith, Elizabeth, and Dylan, We are so sorry for your loss. Troy was so kind and caring. We remember him with fondness and smiles. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Paul, Karen, Kelsey, and Sam
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The Christensen Family posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 19, 2014
Our family is sending prayers of comfort in this challenging time. Mountains of love from Lyman, Danan, Raina, Neia Christensen.
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Hogels posted a condolence
Monday, August 18, 2014
We are truly sorry for your loss, please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers.