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Sandor planted 3 trees in memory of Thomas VanDresar, Jr.
Thursday, April 27, 2023
3 trees were planted in memory of
Thomas H. VanDresar, Jr.
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The trees are for Tater, his father and Amys father. I am thinking of you, Amy and the family during this difficult time. I will miss you Tom. Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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Jaqueline VanDresar uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, May 14, 2023
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I have spent some time thinking about a memory to share and realized that it is nearly impossible to narrow it down when you gave me a lifetime of memories to cherish. I’ll hold on to those memories, the sound of your laugh, your smile, and most of all the way you taught me to live, be strong, and that Tommy and I were unstoppable. You taught little me that she was brave, how to hold on to the good in life and how to let the bad stuff go. You taught me good things do not come easy but with some work, and a whole lot of strength I can accomplish anything I sent my mind to. As a younger adult you showed me responsibility even though most of the time, I hated it. & I can’t begin to count the number of times you tried to teach me to change my brakes... little did you know I never wanted to learn to do them myself... I just wanted to be with you, laugh with you, and spend time with you. As an adult you taught me the most. Those words of wisdom you passed along while I struggled trying to find myself. The amount of belief you had in me to move on, move past, and continue when I really wasn't sure how to. Let’s not leave out how to make the best damn grilled cheese a human can ever have, and how you CAN NOT cook on the grill without testing at least one burger and one hotdog. Oh, and I’d also like to mention that you have proven time and time again that using a leaf blower can and will get any fire going when you are out of gas, or lighter fluid. You taught me to value myself, how to live simply, and the real meaning of honesty, kindness, and forgiveness. YOU are my rock, my backbone, and my hero in so many ways. I'm forever thankful for each T-N-T contracting facetime you helped Chea and I with. The knowledge you offered to us as you taught us how to put in some flooring, paint the walls, change some outlets, fix the leaks, and do all the things for ourselves. We will both carry that with us and use what you have taught us to keep your skills, and brain smarts with us. Most important memory I have is when I first moved out on my own you gave me a toolbox. A toolbox filled with things I never thought I would need, nails, a hammer, a measuring tape, etc. You knew exactly what you were doing when you gave that toolbox to me, you saw a lot of you in me that I hadn’t quite seen yet. Because of you I live. Because of you I believe in myself. Because of you I live.
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Jaqueline VanDresar uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, May 14, 2023
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Jennifer VanDresar uploaded photo(s)
Monday, May 8, 2023
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Pam (Aunt) uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, May 4, 2023
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Pam (Aunt) uploaded photo(s)
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Pam (Aunt) uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, May 4, 2023
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Pam (Aunt) uploaded photo(s)
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Pam (Aunt) uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, May 4, 2023
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Pam (Aunt) uploaded photo(s)
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Pam (Aunt) uploaded photo(s)
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Aunt Pam VanDresar uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, May 4, 2023
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Melinda lit a candle
Wednesday, May 3, 2023
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I am going to miss our football texts when the Bears face the Giants, on your birthday when I could tell you, you're old. The kids, Amy and many others are going to miss everything about you. Every time I hear the ACDC song TNT and Thunderstruck I think of you, we had our ups and downs but you are alright TazMan, Travel with peace, light and love up there.
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Elizabeth VanDresar uploaded photo(s)
Monday, May 1, 2023
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Uncle Tater
It is an ongoing family joke that I throw to many parties for myself. Though this is true, you have never missed one. I’ll forever be thankful to have you as my uncle. I’ll be saving you a seat in six months, I know you’d never miss it.
I will remember you for your sweetness.
For your creativity, your jokes, and your smile.
I will remember you for always saying I Love You.
Because of you I will be kinder, love harder, and let go of grudges. I will cherish every moment, and say I love you.
I will miss you eternally.
-Loopy Lou Lou
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Shelby Humphrey uploaded photo(s)
Monday, May 1, 2023
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Q: What will you miss most about Thomas?
A: I am going to miss every single thing about this wonderful man! If I had to pick a few things I’d miss most they would be: his smile, laugh, compassion, silliness, creativity, ingenuity, his love, and warmth.
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Pam (Aunt) uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, April 30, 2023
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Pam (Aunt) uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, April 30, 2023
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We all know that the pain of losing someone is something we all have to face, it is expected that we will eventually lose our older family members, the cycle of life.
How can it be that we had to say good bye to a husband, father, brother, uncle, nephew, cousin and friend so soon. I watched your devastated wife unable to comprehend what was happening and all your family members in such pain we could barely speak.
As a child you were fearless, your Mom and Dad were frequent visitors to the Emergency Room to get you patched up. You were definitely a handful, but you were also a joy to be around. You have always had that quick smile and a natural ability to make everyone laugh.
You and Amy built a beautiful life together and shared such happiness. You both faced the difficult times and gave each other strength to get through them.
Watching Tom & Shelby and Jackie & Chea, I know they have been given the tools needed so they can all have wonderful lives. I also know how proud you were to be their Dad and how much you loved them.
Tom, you never judged us and always gave us your full support. Thank you for giving our family so much love and laughter.
You left in such a hurry, there was no time to say goodbye. I pray that you somehow felt all the love that was in that room with you.
I Love You
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Tim VanDresar uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, April 30, 2023
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Nikki Merchant uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, April 30, 2023
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Nikki Merchant uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, April 30, 2023
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To my uncle daddy Tater Tot-
I remember being a little kid running away from you because I thought you were this big scary guy but turns out you were a big ol’ sweetie, like a second father to me! Thank you for giving me a safe & loving place to call my second home. The way you always dealt with bud and I, getting home right at 9:05.. 5 minutes past curfew and not saying a word because you were the coolest uncle there was. So beyond thankful for all the endless summer weeks, staying up late playing cards & guitar hero.. Thank you for welcoming Mark & Isaiah into your heart with no questions & playing football with my boy… This world will never be the same without you. I love you Tater, RIP.
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Crystal Glahn uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, April 30, 2023
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Your forever love, given everything I’ve been handed inspired me to ensure my children loved you just as much as i & to give them the love the truly deserved. Because of you I made sure they knew that family was the most important thing & to value every memory and photograph taken. Always asking me to bring them over, making sure you got school & sports pictures of them; You had the most beautiful heart & were so proud of your family. I love you always Uncle Tommy.
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Chea Ardeneaux uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, April 30, 2023
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Thank you for loving me like your own. Thank you for all the memories and all the things you taught me, even through FaceTime. I will forever cherish our memories of game nights, bon fires, and 90s country trivia. I will miss my baseball buddy but I will always take credit for making you a braves fan ❤️. You were an amazing man and even a more amazing dad. Thank you for trusting me with your baby girls heart and I promise I will always take care of her for you. You will forever live in our hearts. Until we meet again, I love you tater!
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Jackie VanDresar uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, April 30, 2023
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Jackie VanDresar uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, April 30, 2023
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Jackie VanDresar uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, April 30, 2023
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Jackie VanDresar uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, April 30, 2023
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Jackie VanDresar uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, April 30, 2023
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jackie vandresar uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, April 30, 2023
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Jackie vandresar uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, April 30, 2023
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I’ll forever miss the memories we created in the barn. Between playing games, building something I just randomly found online, and you setting up special seating arrangements for Chea, me, Tommy and Shelby. You had a way of always making sure you made each and every experience a treasured memory.
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Jackie VanDresar uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, April 30, 2023
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Remember how you taught me to swim, holding me up until I began to trust the water and myself? When I was little, you always knew everything. As I grew, you showed me everything. Little by little, you gave me everything. What you've been to me is everything and ill forever have those memories to hold on to. You walked in strength and kindness. You walked in love and with warmth. You taught me strength and how to love. The time we had wasn't nearly enough to pack in an entire lifetime, and it hurts that you left us way too soon. There are so many questions that I need answers to, you knew everything every time I asked. There are still photos to remember you by, and I can’t wait to share them and look back on all the good times you brought into all our lives. They say grief is easier to bear as time goes by, but that doesn't stop me from wondering why. You were my guiding star, My sun, and my moon. With every next milestone in my life, I just hope you are right there with me. I hope I make you proud and continue to push with the strength you have given me. I can still feel your hand big in mine, a comfort I wish I could put into words. It was a privilege and an honor to be your daughter. It was grounding and humbling to see just how hard you worked each day. It was inspiring and incredible to see you do whatever you set your mind to do. I love you; I’ll always love you and I hope you know we got it from here. “I couldn't ask God for more. Man, this is what love is I know I gotta let her go but I'll always remember very hug in the morning & butterfly kisses”
Love always , your baby Girl
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Jackie VanDresar uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, April 30, 2023
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Jackie VanDresar uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, April 30, 2023
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You two handsome men look like you belong on a country music album cover. I will forever cherish this photo.
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Jackie VanDresar uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, April 30, 2023
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Jackie VanDresar uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, April 30, 2023
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Jackie VanDresar uploaded photo(s)
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Jackie VanDresar uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, April 30, 2023
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Jackie VanDresar uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, April 30, 2023
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You hated every time i tried to take a photo of you. You would cover your face ask me why and tell me not to do it. I didn't listen... I know shocker. But i'm so glad i didn't. This photo alone holds amazing memories as does every photo shared here. Thank you for always being the one to help , creating anything my little creative mind could make up. I'll miss crafts with you and learning how to make all the things.
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Jackie VanDresar uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, April 30, 2023
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Jackie VanDresar uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, April 30, 2023
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You could forever light up a room with your goofy self, your laugh your smile, or your jokes.
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Jackie VanDresar uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, April 30, 2023
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Chuck Sherman posted a condolence
Saturday, April 29, 2023
Tommy was a great guy and glad to say he was part of our family . Tommy was the love of my cousin's Amy life and made her so happy. He was always a joy to be around and always had people laughing. Tommy you will forever be in our hearts and I know you will continue to watch over Amy . Until we meet again
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Dawn VanDresar uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, April 29, 2023
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Tommy,
Gone too soon, you have brought us so much joy, your mischievous grin, the twinkle in your eyes and always your quick wit. We will cherish these forever. A “ gentle giant” whose great love for family will live on in our hearts and mind. Time to Ride with the Angels my sweet nephew. I love you Aunt Dawn (Boss of nurses)
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Mike D posted a condolence
Saturday, April 29, 2023
I can’t really believe this day has come so soon but I will never forget you brother and I send my prayers and thoughts to your family…. Delaney
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Melinda uploaded photo(s)
Friday, April 28, 2023
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Paul Dubay planted a tree in memory of Thomas VanDresar, Jr.
Thursday, April 27, 2023
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My Brother Tater,May you continue to Race the Rain, Rind the Wind and Chase The Sunset. Top Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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Jackie uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, April 27, 2023
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A Memorial Tree was planted for Thomas VanDresar, Jr.
Thursday, April 27, 2023
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We are deeply sorry for your loss ~ the staff at Barry Funeral Home Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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The family of Thomas H. VanDresar, Jr. uploaded a photo
Thursday, April 27, 2023
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Jo Ann Brown posted a condolence
Thursday, April 27, 2023
Tom called me Ma at ACE. We were very close at the time. I am devastated to learn of his passing. May his friends and family remember his good nature and loyalty.
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JOHN McLaughlin posted a condolence
Thursday, April 27, 2023
I WORKED FOR TOM FOR THE LAST 7 YEARS. IN THAT TIME I GOT TO KNOW AMY, AND OTHER RELATIVES AND FRIENDS. HE TREATED ME LIKE A BROTHER FROM THE FIRST TIME I MET HIM. I KNOW HOW MUCH HE LOVED AMY AND HIS FAMILY, AND I CONSIDER HIM ONE OF MY BEST FREINDS. I WILL MISS HIM A LOT