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Bill Cavanaugh posted a condolence
Saturday, June 16, 2012
Although I only had the opportunity to talk to Bill a few times our conversations were always bright and cheery. He told me a lot about my Grandmother Katie Gaffey Cavanaugh who I never had a chance to meet. I know the Gaffey Clan will miss Bill very much as do I. My prayers are with you all, especially Joanne who was always a great host whenever I had the chance to visit.
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Ryan posted a condolence
Tuesday, May 29, 2012
At times such as this I find reading Psalms 37 very encouraging. Hopefully it's words will be a source comfort to you.
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John Gaffey posted a condolence
Monday, May 28, 2012
Dad was a man of keen observation Back in the 1960s when the picture went out on the set, Dad would smack the top of the console or twist the rabbit ears to improve the tv reception. How did he know how to do that? It was like Fonzie wrapping the jukebox, before there was a Fonzie. But looking back I understand why Dad chose this particular strategy to fix the tv - Because it worked so well on his children [motion of slapping the back of someone's head] Boom "Can you you hear me now?" Somehow a whack to the head helped transport the message to the part of the brain required for permanent storage. I didn't fully appreciate it at the time but Dad taught me to be a good listener. Listening is a critical skill required for academic and professional success. Thanks Dad. I don't know if Dad is in heaven right now, but I do know that the one sin he is definitely not guilty of is sloth. When we were young Dad took us camping and boating but as we got older Dad's idea of summer vacation was clearing wood lots and building garages. The wood lots would always be downhill past a swamp with plenty of blowdown between you and the road Dad taught us that if you're willing to work hard you will never go hungry. Dad believed in Rock Tumbler Theory of Character Development - "Constant Friction Polishes". Along with dinner time and family projects, we bonded around the tv set. So it is only appropriate to describe Dad in terms of the characters who may have influenced his life. My guesses are. He had the quiet strength of Marshall Dillon He learned his marital skills from Ralph Kramden and parenting technique from watching Sgt Carter work over Gomer Pyle. And, even though his physical characteristics and direct style of speech may have conjured an Archie Bunker Dad was not a racist. He was really more of a white Fred Sanford. Attitude and Aptitude Dad was a Can Do guy Always confident, consistently successful. He was a leader. It's easy to be an expert if you specialize. for example you only fix VW Jettas. But Dad could fix anything looking at it for the first time He didn't need no stinkin manual. And he consistently helped people that sought his aid. We are judged by the standard that you should do what you're supposed to do. Dad met that criteria with flying colors. He worked his tail off to support his family. He showed us how to be hard without sacrificing our humanity. Dad was tight yet generous He grew up in Depression where things came dearly. He was careful with a dollar He was a DIY guy. Dad demanded honesty work ethic critical thinking ( good sense) decisiveness He disdained lazy/indecisive people as "sitting around with their thumbs up their .." Dad was not the Hug Doctor, given to open expression of affection. But he expressed his caring in the manner he provided for his family and helped his friends. He extended us credit when we needed credit. He rescued us alongside the road or snowmobile path. He fixed the stuff we broke. He was our superhero. Dad was a man of character He always showed up And he always knew just what to do. He could solve the difficult problems. He never shirked his responsibilities. A tireless worker Dad delivered! Dad walked this earth for 29,579 days 709,835 hours roughly 42.5 million minutes and just over 2.5 billion seconds He made his moments count. He was generous with his time. And, when it all comes down time is all we have to give. God Bless you Dad We will miss you every day. Yet we will carry you every moment.
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MaryAnne Barry posted a condolence
Friday, May 25, 2012
John and family - I was saddened to hear of your Dad's passing, though I know it was not unexpected. His obituary was full of warmth and character. I hope the rituals of these past few days and the sharing of family memories bring comfort. Thinking of you - MaryAnne
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Bob Troutman posted a condolence
Thursday, May 24, 2012
John and family - My condolences to you all at this time of sadness. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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John & Millie Souva posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 23, 2012
Joanne we are very sorry about your loss of Bill. You and your family are in our prayers
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MICHAEL MONTALBANO SR posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 23, 2012
TO JOHN AND ALAN ISUZANNE AND I SEHT ARE CONDOLANCED ON THE LOST OF YOUR DAD HE WILL BEGREATHLY MISS BY EVEYONE HE WAS ONE OF THE NICES PERSON THAT I HAVE MET MY PREYED ARE WITH YOUR FRIEND MIKE
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Gregor McCoy posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 23, 2012
God looked around His garden and found an empty place. He then looked down upon the earth and saw your tired face. He put his arms around you and lifted you up to rest. God’s garden must be beautiful 'cause he always takes the Best. ... It broke our hearts to lose you, But you didn’t go alone. For part of us went with you, The day God called you to his home. Thank you for protecting our Freedom in Korea,. You're with other fallen comrades of the Corps. I'll miss your stories, jokes, laughter and card playing bluffs. You treated me as a brother and that was enough. Gregor McCoy
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Arlie Corday posted a condolence
Tuesday, May 22, 2012
We are so sorry for your loss. Bill was a wonderful man who will be so missed. May your memories of the good times be a comfort to you today and always. Sending love and hugs to Joanne, Carn, Gin, Andi, Jake, Sam and Trinity and the whole family. Arlie & Howard Corday and family